Child Therapy

At Calvert + Associates in Birmingham, AL 

Helping Children Build Confidence, Process Big Feelings, and Grow Through Life's Challenges

Every child experiences challenges differently. Some children express their struggles through worry or tears, while others communicate through behavior, withdrawal, frustration, or changes at school. Whatever brings your family to counseling, our goal is to provide a safe, supportive environment where your child feels understood, accepted, and empowered to grow.

At Calvert + Associates, we believe every child deserves a space where they can build confidence, develop healthy coping skills, strengthen relationships, and navigate life's challenges with the support of a trusted adult.


What Makes Child Therapy Different?


Children are not simply "small adults." They are still developing emotionally, socially, and neurologically, which means they often communicate and process experiences differently than adults.

Rather than expecting children to sit and talk for an hour, therapy is tailored to each child's developmental stage, personality, interests, and individual needs. Depending on your child's age, sessions may include conversation, creative activities, movement, games, or play-based interventions that help them express themselves in ways that feel natural and comfortable.

Our therapists focus first on building a trusting relationship, because meaningful growth begins when children feel emotionally safe.

What Makes Child Therapy Effective?

Developmentally Appropriate

Therapy is tailored to your child's age, personality, developmental stage, and unique strengths.

A Safe Relationship

Healing begins with trust. We take time to build a strong therapeutic relationship before expecting children to share difficult thoughts or feelings.

Evidence-Based

Our therapists use research-supported approaches that are thoughtfully selected based on your child's individual needs.

Child-Led

We believe children thrive when they feel safe, respected, and empowered. Rather than forcing participation, our therapists follow each child's pace, honor their boundaries, and gently support growth through a trusting relationship.

Parent Partnership

Parents are an important part of the therapeutic process. We work collaboratively with families while also protecting a child's need for a safe and trusting therapeutic space.

Strength-Based

While processing difficult experiences, we help children recognize their strengths, build confidence, and develop resilience

When Might Counseling Be Helpful?

Every child experiences difficult emotions from time to time. Counseling may be helpful if you notice changes that are persistent, interfere with daily life, or seem different from your child's usual behavior

Emotional Signs


  • Frequent worry or anxiety
  • Difficulty managing emotions
  • Low self-esteem
  • Excessive fears
  • Increased sensitivity
  • Persistent sadness or irritability

Behavioral Signs


  • Frequent meltdowns
  • Aggression or acting out
  • Withdrawal from family or friends
  • Changes in sleep or appetite
  • Trouble concentrating
  • Regression (bedwetting, clinginess, baby talk)

Social Signs


  • School refusal
  • Declining grades
  • Friendship difficulties
  • Social withdrawal
  • Increased conflicts
  • Trouble adjusting to changes

Therapy For Younger Children (Ages 3-8)
Understanding Younger Children

Young children are still developing the language, emotional awareness, and problem-solving skills needed to express what they are thinking and feeling. Instead of saying, "I'm feeling anxious," or "I'm overwhelmed," those emotions often show up through behavior. Meltdowns, clinginess, aggression, withdrawal, sleep difficulties, or increased worries may all be a child's way of communicating that they need additional support.

Child therapy provides a safe, developmentally appropriate space where young children can express themselves, build emotional awareness, strengthen relationships, and develop healthy coping skills, all while partnering closely with parents and caregivers.



Common Concerns We Help Children Ages 3-8 Navigate


Big Emotions & Emotional Regulation

All children experience anger, frustration, and disappointment. Therapy can be helpful when emotions become so overwhelming that they lead to frequent meltdowns, aggression, prolonged outbursts, or difficulty calming after becoming upset. Children learn to understand what they're feeling while developing healthy ways to express and regulate those emotions.

Sleep Difficulties

Sleep challenges can look like difficulty falling asleep, frequent night wakings, nightmares, bedtime anxiety, or wanting to sleep with a caregiver. Because sleep and emotional well-being are closely connected, therapy can help children understand and manage the worries or emotions that may be affecting their ability to rest.

Social Skills & Friendships

Learning to build friendships, resolve conflicts, share, communicate, and understand others can be challenging for many children. Therapy helps children strengthen social confidence, navigate peer relationships, and develop healthy communication skills.

School-Related Concerns

School can present challenges beyond academics. Anxiety, attention difficulties, perfectionism, emotional regulation, transitions, or peer relationships can all affect a child's experience at school. Therapy helps children build confidence and develop strategies to navigate these challenges successfully.

Self-Esteem & Confidence

Children begin developing beliefs about themselves from an early age. Therapy helps children recognize their strengths, develop a healthy sense of self-worth, build resilience, and approach challenges with greater confidence.

Family Changes & Life Transitions

Changes such as divorce, welcoming a new sibling, moving, adoption, blended families, or other significant life events can be difficult for children to understand and adjust to. Therapy provides a supportive space where children can process these experiences while building resilience and healthy coping skills.

Chronic Illness & Medical Experiences

Living with a chronic illness, frequent medical appointments, hospitalizations, or ongoing treatments can be confusing and overwhelming for young children. Therapy helps children understand their experiences, express difficult emotions, build coping skills, and develop a sense of safety and confidence while supporting the entire family through the adjustment.

Anxiety, Worries & Fears

Anxiety in young children can show up as separation difficulties, frequent reassurance-seeking, avoidance, physical complaints, irritability, or big emotions. Therapy helps children express their worries, build coping skills, and feel more confident navigating things that feel scary or uncertain.

ADHD & Attention Difficulties

Young children with ADHD may have difficulty sitting still, following directions, managing impulses, transitioning between activities, or regulating big emotions. They often benefit from learning emotional regulation skills while parents receive strategies to support them at home.

Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD)

Young children with autism may experience differences in communication, social interaction, sensory processing, play skills, or flexibility with routines. Therapy focuses on supporting emotional regulation, communication, coping skills, and meaningful connections while honoring each child's unique strengths.

Depression, Saddness & Low Mood

Depression in young children often looks different than it does in adults. Rather than expressing sadness, they may become irritable, lose interest in play, withdraw from others, become unusually tearful, or show changes in sleep, appetite, or energy.

Trauma, Abuse, & Stressful Experiences

Children may be impacted by trauma, abuse, neglect, frightening experiences, or ongoing stress. Therapy provides a safe, developmentally appropriate space for children to process their experiences, express emotions, and build a greater sense of safety and security.

Grief & Loss

Young children often express grief through play, behavior, or physical symptoms rather than words. Whether grieving the death of a loved one, the loss of a pet, or another meaningful loss, therapy provides a safe, developmentally appropriate space to process emotions, cope with change, and continue feeling supported and connected.

Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD)

Many young children enjoy routines, repetition, and having things done a certain way and this is a normal part of development. OCD goes beyond typical childhood rituals and is characterized by distressing thoughts or fears that lead to repetitive behaviors or mental rituals meant to reduce anxiety. Parents may notice intense fears of germs, excessive worries about loved ones being harmed, a need for objects to be arranged "just right," elaborate bedtime or daily routines, repeated reassurance seeking, or needing to do things a certain number of times. When these behaviors cause significant distress or begin interfering with everyday life, therapy can help children and families better understand and manage OCD.

Therapy for School-Age Children & Preteens ( Ages 9-12 )

Understanding School-Age Children & Preteens

As children grow, so do the emotional, social, and academic challenges they face. During this stage, children begin developing a stronger sense of identity while navigating increasingly complex friendships, greater academic expectations, extracurricular activities, family changes, and growing independence.

Although school-age children and preteens often have more language than younger children, they may still struggle to understand, communicate, or cope with overwhelming emotions. Many begin to internalize their feelings, making concerns less visible than they were during early childhood. Therapy provides a safe, supportive space where children can better understand themselves, build confidence, strengthen coping skills, and navigate life's challenges with the guidance of a trusted therapist

Common Concerns We Help Children Ages 9-12 Navigate


Emotional Regulation

As children encounter more complex emotions and social situations, they may struggle to manage frustration, disappointment, embarrassment, or anger. Therapy helps children understand their emotions while developing healthy regulation skills.

School-Related Challenges

Academic expectations, test anxiety, learning differences, organization, attention, or school avoidance can all contribute to increased stress. Therapy helps children build confidence while developing practical coping strategies for success.


Friendships & Social Skills

Friendships become increasingly important during this stage of development. Therapy can help children navigate peer conflict, bullying, social anxiety, communication, and healthy relationship skills.

Self-Esteem & Confidence

Children begin developing stronger beliefs about themselves and often compare themselves to peers. Therapy supports the development of resilience, self-confidence, self-compassion, and a healthy sense of identity.

Perfectionism

Wanting to do well is healthy, but perfectionism can lead to overwhelming anxiety, fear of making mistakes, procrastination, or avoiding new challenges. Therapy helps children develop flexibility, self-compassion, and confidence in their abilities.

Family Changes & Life Transitions

Changes within the family can significantly impact a child's emotional well-being. Therapy provides a supportive space to process these experiences while helping children adapt and feel more secure.

Chronic Illness & Medical Experiences

As children grow, they often become more aware of how a chronic illness or medical condition affects their daily life, school, friendships, and independence. Therapy provides a supportive space to process emotions, manage stress and anxiety related to medical care, strengthen resilience, and build confidence while navigating the unique challenges of living with a medical condition.

Conditions & Additional Concerns We Support 


Anxiety Disorders

Anxiety during this stage may appear as excessive worry about school, friendships, sports, family expectations, or social situations. Some children avoid activities they once enjoyed, while others become perfectionistic or experience frequent physical symptoms such as headaches or stomachaches.

Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)

As academic and social expectations increase, ADHD may become more noticeable through challenges with organization, attention, time management, emotional regulation, self-esteem, homework, or peer relationships. Therapy helps children develop practical strategies while strengthening confidence and self-understanding.


Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD)

As peer relationships become more complex, children with autism may benefit from additional support with emotional regulation, social communication, self-advocacy, coping with change, and building confidence while honoring their unique strengths and neurodiversity.

Depression & Low Mood

Depression may present as withdrawal from friends or previously enjoyed activities, irritability, low motivation, changes in sleep or appetite, declining academic performance, or negative beliefs about oneself. Therapy helps children better understand their emotions while building hope and healthy coping strategies.

Trauma & Stress-Related Concerns

Stressful or traumatic experiences can affect emotional regulation, relationships, concentration, self-esteem, and a child's sense of safety. Therapy provides a compassionate environment where children can process these experiences while developing resilience and effective coping skills.

Adjustment Disorders

Transitions such as changing schools, divorce, family conflict, relocation, medical diagnoses, or other significant life events can be difficult to navigate. Therapy helps children process change, manage emotions, and adjust with greater confidence.

Grief & Loss

As children mature, their understanding of death and loss deepens. Grief may appear through sadness, anger, withdrawal, anxiety, or difficulty concentrating. Therapy provides a supportive environment where children can process their loss while continuing to grow and heal.

Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD)

Children with OCD experience intrusive thoughts along with repetitive behaviors or mental rituals that temporarily reduce anxiety but often become increasingly disruptive over time. Therapy helps children better understand OCD while learning evidence-based strategies to reduce compulsions and regain confidence.

Why Play Therapy?

Why Is Play Therapy Our Primary Approach for Children?

Play is a child's natural language. While adults often process experiences by talking, young children communicate through play long before they have the words to fully express their thoughts, emotions, or experiences.

For many children, play therapy provides a developmentally appropriate way to explore feelings, process difficult experiences, strengthen relationships, increase emotional regulation, and develop healthy coping skills. Rather than talking about emotions, children are able to safely experience, express, and work through them in ways that feel natural and engaging.

At Calvert + Associates, play therapy is often the primary therapeutic approach used with children because it meets them where they are developmentally while fostering trust, connection, and emotional growth.

Sand Tray Therapy

Sand tray provides children with a hands-on way to explore thoughts and emotions that may be difficult to express with words. Using miniature figures and a tray of sand, children create scenes that help therapists better understand their inner world while fostering emotional healing and self-expression.

Expressive Arts Therapy

Expressive Arts Therapy uses creative activities such as art, music, movement, storytelling, and other forms of creative expression to help children explore emotions, process experiences, and communicate in ways that may feel easier than words alone. By engaging the creative process, children can build emotional awareness, strengthen coping skills, and develop confidence in a safe and supportive environment.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

CBT helps children recognize the connection between their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Through age-appropriate activities, children learn practical skills for managing anxiety, building confidence, solving problems, and responding to challenges in healthier ways.

Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT)

TF-CBT is an evidence-based approach designed to help children and adolescents recover from traumatic or highly stressful experiences. It combines coping skills, emotional support, and gradual processing of difficult experiences while actively involving caregivers throughout treatment.

Theraplay®

Theraplay is an attachment-based, interactive approach that strengthens the relationship between children and their caregivers through playful, structured activities. By fostering connection, trust, emotional regulation, and healthy attachment, Theraplay helps children feel safe, confident, and supported while empowering caregivers with meaningful ways to nurture their child's growth.

Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)

DBT techniques help children and adolescents develop skills for managing intense emotions, improving relationships, tolerating distress, and responding thoughtfully rather than impulsively. These skills can be especially helpful for children who experience overwhelming emotions or difficulty with emotional regulation.

Brainspotting

Brainspotting can help children process emotions and experiences that may be difficult to put into words. With developmentally appropriate adaptations, it can support children experiencing anxiety, trauma, fears, emotional overwhelm, or other stress-related concerns.

Attachment-Based Therapy

Attachment-based approaches focus on strengthening a child’s sense of safety, trust, and connection within important relationships. Therapy may support the parent-child relationship while helping children develop greater emotional security, confidence, and regulation.

Somatic Approaches

Children often experience and communicate emotions through their bodies. Somatic approaches help children notice and understand body sensations, recognize signs of stress or overwhelm, and develop skills that support regulation and a greater sense of safety.

Parent Consultation & Family Support

Children grow within the context of their families. When appropriate, therapists collaborate with parents to provide education, practical strategies, and support that helps reinforce progress outside of therapy.

Other Approaches to Child Therapy

Every child is unique, which means there is no one-size-fits-all approach to therapy. Below are a few of the evidence-based approaches our therapists may use when working with children. Rather than relying on a single method, our therapists often take an integrative approach, thoughtfully combining techniques based on your child's age, developmental stage, personality, strengths, goals, and individual needs. Each intervention is carefully selected to provide developmentally appropriate, compassionate, and effective care that supports your child's growth and well-being.

Meet our Child Therapists

Ella Walker | LICSW

Ella Walker | LICSW

Helps young children with anxiety, behavior challenges, and big emotions through play therapy in a safe and supportive environment